this is something that is unavoidable, worry just popped out in me. why? the risk and probablity of accident is higher. i am not a good risk taker. i dont wish to see my son knock on sharp edgy furniture and sees bloods. so when my wife is busy with her matters, i would carry my son up to our own room, where i would lock up the bathroom entrance, switch on the fan and aircond, unplugged all the unnecessary. wallahhhhh....lucky thing is i have always fond of minimalist design, so my room is very empty in a way. now my son would be happy to walk and crawl around without me worrying, even if its a fall, i know it is only bearable pain that he will goes through. this is how i combat worries.
and some people who dont want worrys in life, they spend what they want, do what they want, and say what they say. these people are pure ignorant. they said why worry, live for today, i think alot of people had misunderstood the term live for today. when u live for today u live with a plan, not that sort of no worry be happy, do what u want now and worry about it later. when u starts to worry, u will regret on what u did, and u will have greater worry in the end. lets just assume i am a very down to earth person ( as i grow older of course) i dont expect miracle to happened on me, u need to work extra hard to earn that ( at least in most matter).
hope all of find a method to combat the worries. Worry bound to happen on anyone, but hey there's always ways to combat it, but the rule of thumb is focus, calm, analyze then seek solutions.

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